HOW DID YOU BECOME A FEMINIST? (Story)

Anywho i was about 13 or 14 or so when i officially CALLED myself a feminist. i started to realize how women get told "girls dont do that" "dont sit like that bc boys..." "dont wear that" "her fault she got raped when she wears shit like that" and it started to piss me off because why the fuck should we change OUR behaviour because some people dont have their shit together and have no sense of respect? i thought to myself if youre a bad student you get taught more intensively or get extra help, but the teacher wont stop teaching or making it easier bc in the end YOU are the problem you know. aditionally to this, and i think that was a big ass trigger point too, i used to be in love with some guy and he didnt like me back you know and i would let that take over my life as if my self worth was dependent on whether or not some boy liked me back. so i fell into self pity and allat when one day i just snapped and i was like "yo dude. get your shit together because youre thinking exactly--like sexual assauters would, people dont owe you SHIT" so i just started to inform myself more (EDUCATION IS SO IMPORTANT PEOPLE!!!!!) and i noticed more and more stuff like how woc get treated compared to white women/ men and being put down even by people of their own ethnicity. also the whole slut shaming thing we do as girls like "the fuck she wearing" or wtv so that pissed me off. i ccant even tell you how many times i had to explain this shit to people like 1. FEMINISM IS JUST HUMAN RIGHTS and also MISANDRY ISNT FEMINISM and saying youre not like other girls isnt either and holy shit people got punched but most of them got it so im rlly proud of that. know your self worth bitch even if you cant love yourself right now, your value isnt based on what others think of you and dont change your behaviour because people are too stupid to respect you. educate people. education is seriously everything you just have to get to that moment of realización (im basically done but may i just say im of gypsy descent so its really horrible for us too especially b. of the stereotypes that come with our heritage. i dont have to go further into this bc we all know what this is about and it hurts my heart. people seem to forget us, dehumanize us which is seriously horribe so i want to take this chance of being heard to just tell you to respect us. we are people and no were not child kidnappers. we were kept in concentration camps and hunted down for years on end and even today we still face so many troubles. as soon as some people realize youre a gypsy they make jokes (beyond the point of funny which i believe is very low because in our situation its not quite okay yet to make jokes (even if theyre funny) because people forget we are fuckin humans who suffered through endless racism and stereotypes so thats that. stop dehumanizing or demonizing us. we are people. we're peaceful)