HOW DID YOU BECOME A FEMINIST? (Story)

I realized I was a feminist when I saw that men thought that it was nice to catcall people. When I got slut shamed all the time. When I got told that it's not lady-like to be sitting a certain way, or that I tried to "seduce my dad's cousin because of my dress and the way I was sitting". But also, when I heard a guy telling his rape story and people laughed at him. When I heard a guy at work saying "I can't spend enough time with my wife after the baby's born because I'm not the mother". When friends (including girls) made fun of a guy I knew because he, a straight guy, liked to paint his nails.